Backyard to the Universe
Small Group Ministries
The Children Factor
Opening Words/Lighting the candle/chalice
Living our principles" is a nice motto, but in modeling Unitarian Universalist values, do our interactions with children model reverence and respect for life, and support and enhance their self-esteem?
Do children hear or see us modeling our values?
When our actions are not in harmony with our beliefs and values, are we willing to admit that to ourselves and children?
There is no guarantee that our children will be lifelong Unitarian Universalists, but there is a guarantee that, if we are aware of being living role models for our children, that our religion will be challenging, changing, and visible. Helen Zidowecki
Check in: How are things going for you today?
Topic/Activity
What is the most spiritual part of your interactions with children?
How does working with children influence your view of the world?
What difference does being a Unitarian Universalist make in how you interact with children? With other parents?
What would you want your children to learn from you?
Closing Words
When I saw an adult speak harshly to a child and pull the child along with determined force, I did nothing. ....It was none of my business;
When we had Guest at Our Table, I was very casual about urging contributions, or putting in anything myself. ....Others would contribute from the church..
When we saw a street person collecting cans, I didn't stop the disparaging remarks about "wasted" people....After all, I wasn't one of them.
When someone asked about being forgiven by God, I changed the subject.... .My belief was different from theirs......
When I attended the discussion last night, I was sure to have my say!....MY ideas are important....
When I wasted natural resources without a thought, I realized that my actions were not in harmony with my beliefs.....
And I vowed to change my actions ...children are watching. Helen Zidowecki
Likes and Wishes: How was the session for you?
Zidowecki, January 2006